My
first companion sent me this email and I loved it so much I want you
all to read it. Please take the time because it changes everything about
your week!
This
morning I listened to President Uchtdorf's talk, "A Summer with
Great-Aunt Rose." It's about a young girl named Eva who has to spend a
summer living with her Great-Aunt Rose while her mother recovers from a
surgery. At first she doesn't like it at all. She didn't want to go, she
wanted to stay with her parents and her friends for the summer, not go
far off into the country to live with Rose. However she goes, but pays
little attention to her aunt and spends much of her time as far away
from her as possible.
Eventually however she noticed something. President Uchtdorf says:
"Over time, Eva made a surprising discovery: Great-Aunt Rose was quite possibly the happiest person she had ever known!
But how could that be?
What did she have to be happy about?
She
had never married, she had no children, she had no one to keep her
company except that creepy cat, and she had a hard time doing simple
things like tying her shoes and walking up stairs."
The
answer, as Great-Aunt Rose put it, “There is enough that doesn’t go
right in life, so anyone can work themselves into a puddle of pessimism
and a mess of melancholy. But I know people who, even when things don’t
work out, focus on the wonders and miracles of life. These folks are the
happiest people I know.”
She
continues saying, "God didn’t design us to be sad. He created us to
have joy! So if we trust Him, He will help us to notice the good,
bright, hopeful things of life. And sure enough, the world will become
brighter. No, it doesn’t happen instantly, but honestly, how many good
things do? Seems to me that the best things, like homemade bread or
orange marmalade, take patience and work.”
Our
lives are far from perfect. You can look at your life and look at all
the things that have gone wrong and pity yourself or call out for
attention, but none of that will ever make you happy.
So what is supposed to make you happy? Well as Great-Aunt Rose says:
“Faith,”
Aunt Rose smiled. “I discovered faith. And faith led to hope. And faith
and hope gave me confidence that one day everything would make sense,
that because of the Savior, all the wrongs would be made right. After
that, I saw that the path before me wasn’t as dreary and dusty as I had
thought. I began to notice the bright blues, the verdant greens, and the
fiery reds, and I decided I had a choice—I could hang my head and drag
my feet on the dusty road of self-pity, or I could have a little faith,
put on a bright dress, slip on my dancing shoes, and skip down the path
of life, singing as I went.”
I
just really loved that talk. It's one that has stuck in my mind since I
first heard it, and I thought I'd share the highlights with you.
My
favorite part is that "God didn't design us to be sad." Your life isn't
meant to be a series of sad events and unhappy feelings strung
together. It's meant to be filled with happiness. Turn a crying moment
into a laughing moment. Find a positive spin, even if it seems
ridiculous, when everything has gone wrong.
And
have a little faith. “Now is part of eternity. It doesn’t only begin
after we die! Faith and hope will open your eyes to the happiness that
is placed before you."